It’s a costly time to be alive these days! With groceries, gas, and utilities ticking higher and higher, I thought it’d be a good idea to reflect on what frugal habits have worked in our favor. I’m naturally thrifty, though I admit, when Brian and I first paid off the mortgage, we definitely relaxed our budget a little.
Of course, some things have changed since then, like buying a new house and experiencing a global pandemic. Talk about an adjustment! Luckily, it’s not difficult for me to revert back to my old habits! After COVID, we swapped out our semi-lenient spending for financial minimalism.
Over time, we realized that not all of my frugal habits made sense for our joint lifestyle and finances. We eventually found a compromise between my thriftiness and Brian’s comfort level.
Easy Frugal Habits That Stick
Honestly, there was a time that Brian and I got into clipping coupons. They weren’t the usual digital ones in the grocery store weekly ads, but full-on newspaper clippings. It took way too much effort.
From coupons and a minimal food budget to a bare-bones approach to utilities, we soon realized that my inner cheapskate ways weren’t all that sustainable for the both of us. Instead of forcing certain saving strategies into our routine, we embraced what came naturally.
Here are the frugal habits that continue to work for us:
Having a Default Weekly Meal Plan
One of the easiest habits we’ve stuck with is having a default weekly meal plan. Instead of staring into the fridge wondering what to cook (or defaulting to takeout), we already have a general idea of what’s on the menu for the week.



Whether we batch cook curried lentils, prep salad fixings, or reheat a never-ending pot of soup, we know we’ll have easy, healthy meals waiting for us, with no last-minute scrambles or expensive takeout runs. They’re not elaborate by any means, but they’re delicious, reliable, and perfect for a busy week. Not only does a default meal plan streamline groceries, but it also reduces both food waste and impulse spending. It’s a total win!
Of course, this simple baseline still allows for flexibility when we want to mix things up by swapping in different proteins, like beans, eggs, or grilled chicken. With this habit in place, we’ve been able to prioritize our time and budget and enjoy the simplicity of routine.
Creating a Small Flex Money Buffer
Brian and I have found that keeping a small “flex” money buffer makes life feel a bit more comfortable. We place this buffer in a sinking fund labeled “Extra.” It’s a cushion for the unexpected but non-emergency situations. Things like last-minute outings, a small house project, or a just-because if we’re having a tough day.
This buffer gives us breathing room so we don’t have to dip into savings or feel thrown off track. Obviously, we’re not constantly adjusting or correcting for small things, as this would defeat the purpose of a small flex account. Our “Extra” fund sees a few deposits here and there, but it’s never enough to account for an emergency fund or any serious savings. It simply exists to create wiggle room for life as it happens, providing flexibility for a little enjoyment.
Trying DIY Before Outsourcing
Before outsourcing something, we ask ourselves, “Can we try this first?” It’s a question that has saved us tens of thousands of dollars. While we don’t necessarily want to do everything ourselves, it does give us a chance to level up our skills and knowledge while significantly cutting costs.
From small home fixes and basic maintenance to a deck rebuild and a complete bathroom renovation, Brian and I have discovered that a lot of things are more manageable than they initially seem. Of course, there are learning curves, but that’s what research and YouTube are for!


DIY has become a habit that challenges us to remain curious and resourceful. It has taken our mindsets from seeking convenience to appreciating our capabilities, helping us build confidence and saving us a fortune in the process.
Reframing Saving as Buying Freedom
Brian and I don’t see saving as something restrictive. Instead, we reframe it as a way to create freedom. We ask ourselves, “What does this money allow us to do later?” Every dollar we’re not spending today has a place for more adventures and choices tomorrow. Our savings are working in the background, giving us options and flexibility down the road. This mindset has made it so much easier to pass on things that don’t actually add value to our lives.
We aren’t restricting ourselves, but rather prioritizing what matters most to us. Hello, Freedom!
Reviewing Policies Before They Renew
Reviewing insurance policies isn’t something I look forward to, but I do appreciate what it saves us over time! It can be easy to set insurance policies and forget about them, especially when everything is running smoothly. However, rates tend to increase, coverage changes, and better options become available.
Taking some time before renewal to review and compare policies keeps us in tune with where our money is going. Sometimes we switch providers, and sometimes we successfully negotiate a better deal. It’s one of those habits that might require some effort upfront but becomes fairly low-maintenance later, resulting in potential savings and lower premiums.
Letting “Good Enough” Be Enough
This frugal habit is about appreciating what we already have instead of constantly looking for upgrades. Not everything we own is new or top-of-the-line, and honestly, it doesn’t need to be. A hole can be patched, a tear can be sewn, furniture can be fixed up, and those dishes we’ve had since college? Still work just the same.
It’s easy to get swept up in the idea that newer is better, but letting “good enough” be enough has helped us better appreciate what we already have. Instead of upgrading, we’re maintaining and appreciating, redirecting our attention and money toward future experiences and quality time.
Planning Purchases Before We Need Them
Planning purchases ahead of time has saved us from countless rushed, expensive decisions. Defaulting to convenience rather than cost can lead to serious overspending, especially when something breaks or we suddenly need to pivot. But when we’re ready for those planned (albeit irregular) expenses, whether it’s travel, car repairs, or home maintenance, we can slowly prepare for them throughout the year.
This is where sinking funds come into play. Building up cash deposits over time makes those larger purchases feel way more manageable and accessible. It gives us time to research and find better options, allowing for proactive decision-making and intentional spending.
Moving Leftover Money into Investments
Any extra money at the end of the month gets put to good use! Instead of letting surplus cash slowly disappear into everyday spending or sit in a checking account, we move it into investments. It’s a super simple habit that helps us avoid lifestyle creep and strengthen our financial future.
We didn’t always do this, of course. It’s something that happened slowly over time, after we defined our savings strategy and financial comfort levels. Eventually, money management becomes routine, a kind of second nature that keeps the wheels greased. Leftover cash ends up being less about “What can this do now?” and more about “What does this mean for later?” It has taught us to see the potential in every dollar. And the best part? There’s no overthinking it! We just move it and let it grow.
Keep It Simple: A Lifestyle, Not a Set of Rules
Frugality often gets a bad rap, leading some to believe that it’s about cutting back or sacrificing what you enjoy. In reality (or my reality, at least), it’s about the freedom to make intentional choices about what you want to do with your money.
Frugal habits shouldn’t feel like a constant negotiation with yourself. They’re not meant to be a strict set of rules you have to follow. The ones that stick fit so naturally into everyday life that you barely notice them anymore. They reflect who you are, what you prioritize, and the kind of life you actually want to live.
For Brian and me, that means choosing flexibility and long-term value. I’ve (reluctantly) scaled back on my cheapskate tendencies so that we could build a financial foundation that feels steady and supportive for both of us. It’s a lifestyle that allows us to enjoy today while still preparing for tomorrow.
If you’re curious about trying different frugal habits in your life, you’ll likely find that some will stick, while others won’t. What’s one frugal habit that’s worked well for you, or one you’re thinking about trying next?





2 Responses
I’m glad that you added DIY as one of your cost saving measures. Not only does it save money, it also has the added benefit of challenging oneself to learning that they can do new things. Thank God for resources like the internet that provide so much information on so many topics. True, you have to be selective on what is the best source of quality expertise, but I don’t think there is much that isn’t covered. Obviously there are jobs that can, and should, be done by a professional team. I don’t think I could have replaced my thirty year old concrete driveway by myself, or replace my roof, but there are other things that can be done. You mentioned replacing your deck and finishing a bathroom. Those projects are well within the abilities of most people, if they want to learn. There is no better feeling than looking at a complete project and being able to say “We did that!”.
Agreed! It takes practice, patience, and some quality tools, but DIY can be a major game-changer. Honestly, we would’ve been up a creek so many times if it weren’t for YouTube! Thank goodness for the internet 🙂